Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
ACT assumes that stress, discomfort, disappointment, illness, and fear are inevitable aspects of being alive, and seeks not to make all suffering stop but instead to help clients adapt to these challenges with greater flexibility rather than engaging in inevitably failing attempts to eliminate all discomfort. This is done by committing to values-based actions especially when the natural desire to escape or avoid uncomfortable thoughts, feelings, or situations is present. In ACT, psychological flexibility, or the ability to adapt to difficult experiences or situations while embracing the present and taking committed action that is rooted in one’s values, is more important than feeling unburdened.
I use ACT to help clients with: Anxiety, depression, grief, military work stress, primary caregiver stress, and adjustment issues such as those related to receiving undesirable orders, transitioning into civilian life.
How does ACT work?
- First, we’ll work on Acceptance by building skills for mindfulness and present moment awareness, practicing cognitive diffusion, and clarifying your values.
- Next, we focus on Direction by determining what values-based action looks like in your life and planning behaviors that get you closer to your goals and are both meaningful and fulfilling.
- Finally, we shift focus to Action by actually implementing the plans we made earlier in therapy, and adjusting behaviors as needed. In this stage as in all other stages of ACT therapy, we place values over comfort and commit to action that aligns with those values, while building tolerance for discomfort and uncertainty.

- Learn to accept and manage emotions rather than avoiding them
- Build resilience and psychological flexibility while focusing on actions that align with your values
- Develop mindfulness skills to stay grounded during difficult moments